Therefore shall a man
leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall
be one flesh. (Genesis 2:24)
When I spoke to my Pastor about my divorce and the events
that lead to it and how forgiveness was just not on the table, he said that my
situation is not unique, and it is basically one out of every two marriages
that ends up in the same way and very few ever get restored. This morning a friend
of mine reminded me of one of the most important things I have ever wrote. The problem
with broken marriages and the unforgiveness that we see today is that it has become
to easy to get divorced. God hates divorce (if I can put it that way), because He
knows what it does to the children and what happens in the spiritual world. She
also said that people do not have God in their homes anymore and that we have
lost the fear of God. Wow, when I heard this it hit me like a hot plate. Man (and
woman) has gotten so arrogant and moved away from God in selfishness and pride
and became their own gods. We would rather hurt and not forgive than to consider
who God is and what He can do to us. We need to right size God and we need to
return to His word and read it daily in our homes and to our children. We need
to forget about our self and start to think of the consequences of our decisions.
When Moses wanted to see God, God said to him that he must turn his back to
God, because God’s majesty will kill him when he sees God. God then moved passed
him so that he could see Him from behind. God spoke and the universe was formed.
God has the final judgement and eternity is apparently not a big threat. We need
to return to God and His word, and we need to change our ways and align us with
God and His word, because then we will understand that when a man leaves his
father and mother to cleave (to melt into/to cut into) his wife to be one flesh,
he will never consider anything else. You will find all your answers in God’s
Word, but we do not want to look, because we will not like the answer. Make the
right choice, do not wait like me until it is to late.
Have an awesome day.
I love you, my friend in Jesus.
Cheers
